This is a flawed analogy, but the best way Iāve ever heard American gun culture explained is by comparison to car culture.
You have these inherently dangerous machines that started off as purely functional things, around which a culture developed of owning/using them for their own sake. Of making them as powerful and as fancy as possible. Of showing that power off to other people. Of just straight up enjoying the machines, enjoying owning them, enjoying using them.
And the vast majority of car owners donāt drunk-drive, donāt excessively speed, donāt drive their vehicles in ways that harm people. Imagine if, every time someone died in a car accident, there were calls to ban cars. Thatās how āgun peopleā see the situation.
I know that the huge difference here is that guns were designed to maim and kill, so youāre comparing use to abuse, but as a way of trying to explain the mindset, i think itās an interesting comparison.