Yours sincerely, [man who’s genuinely not sure where they fall on the scale of that annoying cartoon with a woman calling HR because an unattractive man is talking to her, but who likes the idea of chatting to people in social settings but is also extremely wary of being weird and creepy and absolutely doesn’t talk to people because of this wariness…]
Depends on the context and how subtle you are. I could also be completely wrong here and this person was just being friendly.
I’d say as a rule of thumb don’t go up to random people at the gym. The vast majority of people will not want that attention. I just didn’t really mind on this occasion cause it was subtle and the person didn’t come across as creepy. Seemed more like someone gauging interest than an approach.
Personally quite keen for these kinds of interactions not to be over policed cause otherwise the only way anyone would ever meet is on a god awful dating app.
Feeling pretty meh today. Combination of too much beer, not enough food and not enough sleep. But so worth it. Had a blast last night. Excellent gig, excellent DiSsers.
Out on the coast for now scouting out a kite surfing launch for my map. Heading back to base soon. Via a shop for lunch.
I’ve got a friend who launches off of Hove beach when it’s a bit blowy out, but sensibly I’d have thought somewhere a bit further away from big metal structures at sea would be preferable
Going home to the dentist (really should move to somewhere closer to current house however it’s once/twice a year, I’ve been going since I was 9 and we want to go home at somepoint at whcih point staying with the dentist will have seemed a stroke of genius) and I should arrive just as North Chad school are getting out so that will be fun.