#225

tbf I was obviously thinking I’d choose sexy dreams every night.

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#226

I’m afraid it probably wouldn’t be helpful, sorry. Rashes can be very non-specific and you need to take a proper medical history and often wider examination of other things to interpret them properly.

If it doesn’t fade when you press down on it then I’d advise contacting your local out of hours service, other than that you would be better off seeing your GP in the flesh.

I’m also fairly certain that the GMC wouldn’t take kindly to me giving anonymous advice regarding specific symptoms over the internet. If I got it wrong because I wasn’t able to do the full job then I’d have endangered you by my actions.

Sorry!

#227

Ahhh sorry I was only joking - feel terrible that you actually sat there and typed me a proper response

#228

You’re a really good guy. I hope things pick up.

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#229

You could say it was a bit of a rash response!

Please don’t, though.

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#230

Have dreams of meltdowns sometimes too, feels just like a real one and leaves me exhausted when I wake up :frowning:

Passing is so exhausting, isn’t it? So hard to keep up, gets unsustainable like you say.

Hope you have better dreams tonight :slight_smile:

I think I might just be scared about tomorrow, have to properly leave the house to drop off R with his dad but I’ve become such a hermit since my injury that it feels so terrifying even though I really want to be out of the house. So if I don’t go to sleep it won’t be tomorrow, obviously. Dumb brain.

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#231

I should go to bed, I’m really tired but I’ve only been home for two hours.

#232

Treated myself to a full fat Pepsi this evening, fucking hell it was delicious

#233

You can see Westard Ho from my hometown, and there’s a hotel named after it which I always think must be confusing for the mail service as it’s in the wrong country

#234

Oh great, try to relax so I can sleep by reading a chapter of my tree book and it is the really heavy chapter on climate and how we are totally fucked by not letting forests grow old to be more effective carbon sinks.

#235

Westward Hotel?

#236

My friend ended her liaison with the JUST A WINK EMOJI guy from Xmas Eve, some of his replies were so awkward

33 big years old and he bought her presents because she ‘gave (him) a chance’. YIKES. If only us love-starved women could be as openly desperate at that age rather than having to LEARN TO CONTROL OURSELVES OR BE BRANDED A PSYCHO xoxo

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#237

My man also turned ‘her alluding to her body insecurity the one time she went to his’ into “I’m so glad I helped you feel better about your body, never forget how beautiful you are”

Fffffffffffffff it has truly reminded me that I am better being alone and avoiding all of this dating nonsense

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#238

Is it psychotic to have low self esteem? Seems a bit mean

#239

Snap question: I walked past an upright piano left out with the bins outside somewhere on the way home

  • It’s already broken
  • It definitely will be after being sat out in this rain
  • You’d have to navigate it around about five streets plus speed bumps
  • Not sensible answer

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#240

Still awake. kiddo woke up as I went to bed and has spent 3hrs not sleeping. Fun

#241

I kind of thought you might be joking but wasn’t 100% sure. Didn’t want to ignore you if you were genuinely worried about something though!

#242

You’re a good egg!

#243

Is that where that abandoned house is on the beach? I saw someone tweet about it having a dolls house version of itself in the window…

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#244

No, what I’m saying is that we all have low esteem, but women have to learn to suck it up in situations like this (often years earlier) or they become the crazy ex girlfriend/lover trope. He’s at no point in any of this moderated his feelings, which means he’s smothered her with them and overwhelmed her, and she’s had to end it because it isn’t enjoyable any more. She’d been very clear she just wanted something casual and he has not respected those boundaries.

Giving someone gifts because someone gave you a chance (that chance: messaging for a bit and meeting up a couple of times) is also just very weird behaviour in your 30s.