I feel for you, I found the time around graduation (and the whole first year after uni) really hard. But it was ten years ago now (!) and it all worked out after a while.
Straight after graduation I stayed in my university town for a couple of months and applied for various jobs, none of which I really wanted, and I didnât get any interviews. So I ended up moving back with my parents. Theyâd moved 100-odd miles while I was at uni, so it wasnât even moving back to my home town, but a rural village where I knew no one. I thought about becoming a teacher, so I started to apply for a PGCE and did a half termâs work experience in a school, but I felt like I wasnât good enough to get accepted onto any courses and gave up. I ended up getting a job on the tills at Sainsburyâs just so I was doing something.
I decided that what I wanted to do was have a really good holiday then get into politics. So I stayed at Sainsburyâs for a few months, saved up all my wages, then had a brilliant few weeks crossing the US by rail. When I got back, I started applying for anything I thought I would be capable of that was advertised on W4MP (a useful site if you want something politics related). That summer was quite hard - by then it was a year since graduation, a lot of my friends had proper jobs, and I was in my parents house watching every minute of the Beijing Olympics as I had nothing else to do. But, by October, the constant applying paid off and I got what was then something of a âdream jobâ for me, working in Parliament. (Where I shared an office with a posh young man who spent all his time on a website called Drowned in Sound, which I then joined too, and ended up meeting a lot of people who are still friends today, but thatâs another storyâŠ)
Sorry, that was TLDR. Just wanted to say yeah, leaving uni sucks, especially when you donât know what you want to do, but itâll work out in time.