#10

a walker who clearly has a grudge against cyclists tried to start a row with me the other day but I shut her down and rode off as I CBA with that “I’ve just had a massive row” feeling

Other than that, row with ex last year - although that was mainly text based so it’s not quite the same

Last big vocal row - driver who I witnessed knocking a cyclist off their bike, plus a prick of a local cafe owner who decided to stick his oar in.

#11

Tory in a beer garden just before the election

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#12

my former housemate circa chrimbo 2017. he had a massive go at me for sending in notice on our flat even though I had given him three months notice, asked him before texting landlord, told him landlord had accepted text notice and there was no need for written notice, and told him I would send written notice anyway to be on the safe side. he made out it was a really weird and underhanded thing I had done behind his back and said he would never dream of doing similar, so I listed all the things I wouldn’t dream of doing. this included him not paying me back £1000 in 3 years when it was supposed to be for a month, not paying bills to the point debt collectors were threatened, not paying me back when I covered those bills, and also his constantly subjecting me to his toxic beliefs and treating me like an idiot when I disagreed with him (most recent was his defence of Charles Murray’s the bell curve as ‘legitimate’ science that has been ‘completely vindicated’). still dealing with the fall out from this argument over three years later. guy is the worst person I’ve ever met

#13

I fell out with my last housemate. My style is more arrogant resentment, I have not spoken to him or looked at him since then. Take that, prick!

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#14

Do I have to be the angry one or can I just be the other person involved in one?

If so then this New Years, 2 hour long one standing outside in the freezing cold without a jacket, feeling myself getting iller by the second, surrounded by drunken people having a great time, wishing I was anywhere else in the world.

#15

You can have it if it makes you feel better about it happening.

Had you known you would have got a post out of it, it might have taken the edge off.

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#16

I now look back on it with a rosy glow thanks to this very thread

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#17

Last weekend, my mum, very much a like the picture below with my poor mum as the cat. I apologised profusely and was out of order

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#19

Had a proper get out the car and scream road rage event a couple of weeks ago. There is a road I need to drive down to get out to the main road - cars park on both sides meaning two cars can’t pass. In a year of living here I’ve never had a problem as everyone is very good at taking their turn to get through the narrow bit. I was almost at the end of this bit and some nob decided to try to push through anyway, blocking my way out. I stopped and flashed my lights for him to reverse back (he was only 1 car length in). He refused, gesturing that I could squeeze through (I could not). I waited, more gesticulating and eventually he reversed back a metre, but not actually out of the narrow bit. More flashing, gesticulating and still he refused to move. At this point I was late, hormonal and very angry. Got out the car and properly lost it, to the point passers by stopped and stared. He called me crazy and eventually moved the car. Was a deliveroo driver :woman_shrugging:

#20

Probably had one in the last 2 weeks. My parents are very argumentative and they’re the only people I will lose my cool with (because I know it’ll blow over quickly and everyone will forget about it immediately after the yelling stops). I haven’t lost my temper with anyone else for about 15 years.

#21

I wish I could have never spoken to this guy again, left it a year to try and get the money he owed me back because I couldnt face dealing with him, and it was predictably a total ordeal getting it back, now I have to deal with him again as I have been involuntarily storing his stuff he left in my storage space, he is somehow leveraging this a way to be abusive towards me and called me an incel. hopefully shot of him for good come march

#22

Yeah I have seen some of your posts about him. He seems like a massive dick and I may not have been able to keep up my blanking technique with someone like that.

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#23

My dad, a few days after the referendum result.

I shouted the immortal line: I’M GOING FOR A WALK… AND A SMOKE!!!

and stormed off.

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#24

Just yesterday morning with my mum at about half six in the morning, because breakfast when I have been up since five am so not really with it and am half way through playing out a Clangers story with R is the perfect time to bring up painful and messy subjects.

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#25

This. Hold all of my feelings back and invariably it makes things worse and everyone ends up unhappy. WORKING ON IT.

I don’t think I’ve had a proper shouting match with someone since I was a teenager. Might start on one of my housemates tomorrow.

#26

I’m not sure I ever have and this is likely v. bad.

#27

With my stupid in-laws the weekend before last. Didn’t go well. I am generally extremely conflict averse.

#29

31st January. Colleague was being a wally of humungous proportions. I think he’s quit now. :slight_smile:

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#31

with thewarn at fenino 2018(?) about who the best hannibal lecter is

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#33

You’ve won when they call you crazy