Probably had one in the last 2 weeks. My parents are very argumentative and they’re the only people I will lose my cool with (because I know it’ll blow over quickly and everyone will forget about it immediately after the yelling stops). I haven’t lost my temper with anyone else for about 15 years.

I wish I could have never spoken to this guy again, left it a year to try and get the money he owed me back because I couldnt face dealing with him, and it was predictably a total ordeal getting it back, now I have to deal with him again as I have been involuntarily storing his stuff he left in my storage space, he is somehow leveraging this a way to be abusive towards me and called me an incel. hopefully shot of him for good come march

Yeah I have seen some of your posts about him. He seems like a massive dick and I may not have been able to keep up my blanking technique with someone like that.

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My dad, a few days after the referendum result.

I shouted the immortal line: I’M GOING FOR A WALK… AND A SMOKE!!!

and stormed off.

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Just yesterday morning with my mum at about half six in the morning, because breakfast when I have been up since five am so not really with it and am half way through playing out a Clangers story with R is the perfect time to bring up painful and messy subjects.

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This. Hold all of my feelings back and invariably it makes things worse and everyone ends up unhappy. WORKING ON IT.

I don’t think I’ve had a proper shouting match with someone since I was a teenager. Might start on one of my housemates tomorrow.

I’m not sure I ever have and this is likely v. bad.

With my stupid in-laws the weekend before last. Didn’t go well. I am generally extremely conflict averse.

31st January. Colleague was being a wally of humungous proportions. I think he’s quit now. :slight_smile:

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with thewarn at fenino 2018(?) about who the best hannibal lecter is

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You’ve won when they call you crazy

When you’re a woman as soon as you get angry or raise your voice you inevitably get called crazy :woman_shrugging:

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LED ZEPPELIN II

This. I don’t think I’ve ever really had a major argument with anyone.

I avoid confrontation at all costs, it helps I’m generally laid back, but when I do get annoyed I just bottle it up and stew on it.

Zoso, m8.

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I’m done with you

Never. Not bothered at all about anything to be shaking with rage I don’t …

Is this a good thing 🤷

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some pub bloke

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I think I probably was that guy once it’s hard to recall.

Part of it is that my dad absolutely WAS that guy and it meant I was very much about NOT being that guy because I saw the effect it had on others. Instructive.

I think the last time I remember raising that level of ire in someone was a mate (still mates, not a biggie) while we were on holiday in Egypt in 2004. I was in the wrong but didn’t really get it back then. Ah well.