I know but you’re all acting as if she’s knowingly being a bit of a dick when really there could be a multitude of reasons as to why she thought it would be ok to turn up today. Just think these times can be stressful to mums as well and to cut her a bit of slack and probably not post on a forum about it and get everyone to judge her as a friend, as a mother etc IMO.
JMO
(just my opinion - gonna start that off if anyone fancies joining in on that)