Getting Married (polls)


#1

Enjoying the other ‘I’m a big boy’ thread.

  • I had/want a massive, big, expensive wedding that parents paid for
  • I had/want a massive, big, expensive wedding that we paid for ourselves
  • I had/want a small, DIY wedding that parents paid for
  • I had/want a small, DIY wedding that we paid for ourselves
  • I had/want a destination wedding that parents paid for
  • I had/want a destination wedding that we paid for ourselves
  • I eloped/want to elope
  • I don’t believe in the patriarchal institution of marriage

0 voters


#2

What about if you don’t know?

Also: you made it anonymous! No fun!


#3

No uncertainty allowed.

The other one is anonymous! Don’t want to shame anyone (marckee).


#4

Completely don’t understand the relevance of the institution to me, think expensive weddings are fucking ridiculous, but go ahead and do whatever you want pal, it’s none of my business.


#5

what about medium-sized weddings?


#6

I think this is my stance too.


#7

I got married. I am married. It was fun and I enjoyed it. It is fun and I am enjoying it.


#8

What about them?


#9

I could go full sixth form politics and claim that I think the whole thing is exceptionally needy, but I’d quite like to get some work done this afternoon.


#10

:cookie:


#11

Big party with the ATDs and family. Loads of beers, tops off for the rat. Anything else would be tory obviously


#12

I think you should do it.


#13

problem is defining ‘big expensive’. because i ticked that one (paid for it myself don’t start), because to me it was big and expensive but i know it pales in comparison to some. so i guess i mean ‘in relation to my own means’


#14

I’m with Niki, don’t know


#15

get married? agreed! I’ll 'ave to buy an 'at!


#16

Nah, don’t really like being the centre of completely unnecessary spectacle. UNLIKE THE BRIDE AND GROOM AMIRITE?

(yes)


#17

loads of beers. sounds expensive. know who else buys loads of beers?


#18

this is a good point; mine ran under £10k all in, but that includes flights to Canada, a dress that was pretty expensive, and a few other major things. Well within the limits of some of my friends who have easily spent £30k on theirs.


#19

Imagine wanting everyone to look at you and be the centre of attention for a WHOLE DAY (and more).


#20

it’s okay man you don’t do that every day on here